Are there many control freaks out there? Are you guilty of being one? Let me know okay!

From what I see/know, many boyfriends/girlfriends are control freaks. They restrict where their S.O. goes, cyber stalk them, and suspect alot. Sometimes I think I fall into that category, but most times I refrain from being a control freak.

What's the point of checking on your S.O. if she/he's cheating?
You know, you get hurt.
You don't know, you don't.
You know, he doesn't change, you get hurt more.
You don't know, nothing happens.
You know, you leave him. YIPPEE!
You don't know, get kept in the dark. When you eventually somehow find out, it shocks you. :O

What if she/he's not cheating?
You check, they get irritated.
You check more, they feel offended.
You check some more, their privacy totally gone.
You check even more, they know you don't trust them. When a relationship doesn't have trust, it can't work. :)

I was a victim of cyber-stalking. The feeling toootally sucked. I love my privacy, and when it's being intruded, I get quite mad. :x

Not that I have secrets. Maybe I do. But there are things that I just like to keep to myself. I bet some (if not most) people out there are like me.

So, take a break. Stop cyber-stalking. Relax. If it's gonna work out, it will.